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October 5, 2010

The List 2011

In October of last year I put together a list of things I want to try and achieve througout this year. Unfortunately I can’t say that I achieved absolutely everything on the list, but I’m not going to be too down on myself about it. Instead, I am looking forward to next year and everything it brings! Here are the goals I had the most success with this year:

learn to cook 5 beautiful dishes – Thanks to Masterchef Australia, my love of cooking really blossomed this year. I managed to perfect 3 recipes, and will do my best to continue researching and trying out new recipes in 2011.

grow my hair halfway down my back – With 0% effort on my end (all it took for me to achieve this was to wait a little longer between visits to the hairdresser) I actually managed to complete this goal! Having said that, I’ve been feeling the urge to go the big chop again lately but I will resist because I know I’ll regret it.

decorate the bedroom properly – I am probably half way there with this one. I did manage to buy some new furniture for the bedroom, do a massive cleanout and move everything around a little. I still need a few more things, but a lot of the stuff that I want is going on my birthday/christmas list – so hopefully soon the bedroom will be complete!

read 50 of the top 100 books of all time – I am no where near the actual completion of this goal, in fact I stopped reading books off of the Time list as soon as the Man Booker Shortlist was announced this year… Fickle! As far as the idea behind this goal goes, of wanting to read more and really get excited about books again I am happy to say that I definitely achieved that.

And now, to the new list…

01) Work on building a healthy balance between work, social life and time spent online
02) Finish decorating the bedroom
03) Buy a decent camera
04) Say yes to more social invitations
05) Break ties with “toxic” people or things in my life
06) Save $15,000 to put towards my own property
07) Go to 5 concerts
08) Start pilates classes again
09) Be more emotionally flexible & learn to adapt better to change
10) Get my eyes checked (and probably get new glasses)

There we go! All of the things I hope to achieve before October 2011. What is on your list for this year?

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September 3, 2010

The List 2010 – #8 Progress Update

Since my last post regarding this particular goal, I’ve not read one book from the Time Top 100 list! I have however read 2 remarkable books, and 3 somewhat average ones. Here are a few mini reviews of the books I’ve been reading lately:

On The Beach by Nevil Shute
I was really excited to read this book, as it deals with one of my favourite subject matters – the end of mankind. I know, I’m a little bit kooky but that’s just how I roll. Unfortunately for me this book didn’t really hit the mark, and I’m putting it down to a generational difference. This book was a very neat and tidy description of an Australian town facing the end of days. Published in 1959, this book has (at least to me) a very old fashioned feel and view about it. In particular, an “old fashioned” (read: dated) view of women. The women in this book were portrayed as absolute morons. It took me a while to get over my distaste of that fact to really enjoy the book, and despite that the book itself didn’t really capture my attention til the last 3 or 4 chapters when things really start to happen. I won’t be re-reading this anytime soon.

A Dog’s Heart by Mikhail Bulgakov
I loved this book. It was suggested to me by a friend, and the brief synopsis that she gave me instantly caught my attention. I feel like some of the story might have been lost in translation (the original text is Russian) but it still retains a lot of it’s humour, and meaning. I want to re-read this book again, because I feel like I might get something more out of it the second time around.

The Road by Cormac McCarthy
This book has shot itself up to the top of the list and is now one of my favourite books of all time. It’s an amazing book – fascinating, harrowing at times (well, most of the time) and above all incredibly touching. I was sobbing at the end of this book, though that might not say much because I am a total sap. One thing I will say about this book is that the lack of punctuation can be slightly off putting. I grew accustomed to it pretty quickly, but if that is something that puts you off reading a book – give this one a miss. If not, I would definitely recommend reading this one, it’s amazing!

The Wizard Of Oz by L. Frank Baum
I think anything that I read after The Road would pale in comparison, and The Wizard Of Oz was no exception. I couldn’t get into the storyline at all (it differs from the film, in case you didn’t know) and the old fashioned and somewhat childish (or simple?) way of writing put me off a lot. Thankfully it didn’t take me very long to read once I did finally sit down and attempt to get stuck into it – though I doubt I will re-read it again.

The Unbearable Lightness Of Being by Milan Kundera
I absolutely adored the first half of this book and couldn’t put it down but then I really struggled to retain my interest throughout the second half. The character development had so much promise but it really seemed to fizzle out half way through the story. Chopping and changing between character perspective can either add to the book or take away from it, and in this case it was the latter. I also found it hard to like or relate to any of the characters, (except the dog) which made it hard for me to keep my interest in what was happening within the relationships in the story. Doubt I will read this one again.

Now, who wants to shell out $133.77 and buy me this limited edition of The Secret Garden? How amazing is the cover art?

July 25, 2010

The List – Mid Year Update

At the end of last year, I made a list of 10 things that I hoped to achieve in 2010. These were a mix of spiritual, physical and superficial things that I really felt like I could achieve in the space of 1 year. This was my original list of goals, with some notes to the side as to how much progress I’ve made towards achieving them…

01) grow and cultivate a pink rosebush – I’ve been to the nursery twice to find the perfect rosebush, and the first time I walked away empty handed, the second time (today in fact) I came home with basically everything but a rosebush! It’s really not the right time of year to be looking at them, so I’m hoping I’ll be able to go back in a couple of months time and pick one up to work on for the last part of the year.

02) learn meditation – I’ve not really made any progress with this goal at all. I received a Deepak Chopra CD for Christmas, but I haven’t been making the time to actually listen & work on my meditation skills at all throughout 2010. I will try to refocus on this over the course of the next few weeks.

03) learn to cook 5 beautiful dishes – I’ve not done too badly with this one, as cooking is something I do on a regular basis. I’ve managed to get 2 recipes basically perfected, so I just need to find 3 more that I want to work on. Luckily Masterchef has inspired practically the whole country to work on their cooking, so there are lots of interesting and easy recipes floating around at the moment!

04) work up my fitness to be able to run for 45 minutes without having to stop – Surprisingly this is the goal I would say I have under the most control. I’ve tried a few different fitness routines, but sticking to the Couch to 5K program has really done wonders for my stamina so far. I’ve had to backtrack slightly because of illness and a back injury, but having the plan basically all in place and ready to go without me having to think too much about it has really helped my motivation. Fingers crossed that if all goes to plan, in 6 weeks I should be at goal!

05) buy a pair of christian louboutin heels – I’ve made absolutely no progress with this goal at all. Oops! I will probably need to start saving soon, as my shopping budget does not really allow for $1000 shoes to be purchased on a whim. I’ll need to think about this, and figure out what I’ll need to ‘put aside’ each pay in order to afford a pair of Louboutins this year. Perhaps they could be my Christmas present to myself…?

06) grow my hair halfway down my back – Thankfully this is a goal that I really have to put minimal effort in to see progress, so it seems to be going quite well! I get my hair trimmed once every 8 weeks or so (which is a little longer than I technically should be waiting between trims, I know) and at this stage my hair is longer than it’s ever been in my life, and is sitting just under my shoulder blades. I think by the end of this year I should be able to achieve this goal quite easily.

07) decorate the bedroom properly – I still have quite a way to go with this goal, but I do have plans for a big furniture purchase in August of this year. My best friend and I have planned for an all day shopping trip, and I’m hoping that I find some lovely but rather inexpensive pieces for the bedroom. I also wanted to get some painting done, but I’m not sure how likely that is at this stage. Time will tell.

08) read 50 of the top 100 books of all time (I figure 100 is a bit much for 1 year) – I decided a little while ago that 50 books off of this list was basically impossible, as I’m not capable of reading 1 book a week and living my life as I do now. So I’ve decided to read as many as I like, but focus on the books from the list that I actually am really interested in reading. I’ve also allowed myself some books that aren’t on the list, because there have been a lot that I’ve come across that I’ve really been fascinated by.

09) join and regularly donate to a charity (the RSPCA) – This is unfortunately a goal that I haven’t gotten around to achieving. I have, however been making an effort notes instead of coins when the opportunity for charity presents itself. Which is pretty much once a week, as I work in the city, and there are always collections happening right outside the train station when I arrive in the mornings. I don’t feel like this is enough for me to count this goal as achieved, so I plan on looking a little more into RSPCA donations and what will suit my budget and lifestyle.

10) get my teeth professionally whitened – I’ve made no progress with this whatsoever. I was planning on asking my grandfather (who used to be a dentist prior to retirement) if it’s really necessary for me to get them whitened, or if a professional clean would suffice. I don’t have too many issues with yellowing or anything like that, so I’m thinking that a good clean might be enough.

It’s been over half a year now, and I’ve made some small progress with some of the items on my list, but others have fallen completely by the wayside. I am planning on making a conscious effort to work on the goals that I’ve forgotten about, or ‘put off’ until now. I’ll post my updates as I go, and hopefully I can get this all done before the end of 2010!

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July 15, 2010

The List 2010 – #8 Progress Update

For those that are not aware, one of my 10 goals for this year was to read 50 books from the Time Top 100 Book List of all time. I have since decided that as it appears that I’m not going to finish the 50 books this year, I’m going to filter through the Time list to find books that appeal to me, and I actually want to read. I’m also allowing myself to read some other books that have caught my eye in the mean time. Because life is too short not to do the things you want to do, right? So the last time I posted an update on goal #8, I was halfway through reading Atonement by Ian McEwan. Here are a couple of mini reviews of the books I’ve read (from the list) since then:

04: Atonement by Ian McEwan
This was an absolutely beautiful story. I loved it. I felt a great affection for the characters all the way through the book, so the ending was as shocking as expected. (I had ruined it for myself prior to reading, of course. I do that a lot. Thanks, Wikipedia.) I loved how vivid the landscapes were, I definitely lost myself in the story while reading it. Surprisingly though, the film actually surpassed the book for me. I rushed out to buy the DVD as soon as I’d finished reading, and the film was an absolute masterpiece. I will be re-reading the book sometime in the future, I get the feeling that this is one of those books you get something new from every time you read it.

05: Slaughterhouse Five by Kurt Vonnegut
It was slightly jarring moving from the poetic imagery in Atonement to the stark writing of Vonnegut in Slaughterhouse Five, but a couple of chapters in & I was lost in the story. I have been quite obsessed with wartime books/movies/tv series lately, so I was instantly drawn into the war element of Slaughterhouse Five. I do admit, I was slightly lost in the time travel aspect of the story, but it all came together to make a lot of sense in the end. Billy’s fatalism became quite humourous to me after a while. “So it goes…” If you’re not a fan of black humour or satire I would give this one a miss.

06: The Blind Assassin by Margaret Atwood
This book made me want to read more by Margaret Atwood. It was beautifully written, captivating and I fell absolutely in love with the characters Iris & Laura. The fact that the revealing of the characters in “The Blind Assassin” (the story within the story) didn’t come until later in the book was quite hard to follow at first. After a few chapters it’s easier to understand the flow of the book, and you can easily get lost in the story. The ending didn’t come as much of a shock to me, as I had sort of figured out what was happening around halfway through the book (not thanks to Wikipedia this time…) but I was still in tears while reading the last chapter. A beautiful, moving book that I will definitely re-read in the future.

07: White Noise by Don DeLillo
I was quite disappointed with this book because it wasn’t what I had expected it to be. It was well written, as expected, but was far too heavy on dialogue for my taste. Also, the main theme of death is not something that I was really in the mindframe to be exploring, so that was quite off putting for me. I didn’t really relate to any of the characters and the only character that really struck me as fascinating (Wilder) was quite underused in the story. I won’t be re-reading this anytime soon, and I’m not sure I would suggest anyone else read it. At least not before Atonement or The Blind Assassin.

I’ve also managed to squeeze in Of Mice And Men by John Steinbeck which was absolutely incredible. I managed to read it in 2 days (it’s a short story), so if you can get your hands on a copy – please be sure to read this! I am now moving on to On The Beach by Nevil Shute, which isn’t on the reading list but deals with one of my favourite subjects – the apocalypse. Yes, I am strange.

May 29, 2010

The List 2010 – #3 Progress Update

The third item on my list of things to achieve in 2010 was to “learn to cook 5 beautiful dishes”. I have become a bit of a cookbook addict as of late, in particular the cheap and cheerful Woman’s Weekly cookbooks that I find at the newsagent near my work. (I think these are available in almost every newsagent, but mine seems to stock the entire range. Dangerous!) At this stage, I have settled on 2 definite recipes that I believe I have perfected, and will cook time and time again. The first was the Chilli Con Carne that I recently posted the recipe for. This was so simple to make, doesn’t cost a lot as far as ingredients and time are concerned, and is the perfect dish to make in large amounts to freeze and store for a later date. I will be making my second batch tomorrow, and will continue the newly appointed Sunday night tradition of eating chilli and watching Dr Who. The second recipe is for Tollhouse Cookies that I found in my 500 Cookies recipe book. I will be sure to share the recipe sometime soon, as these are absolutely amazing. I have been browsing through my new cookbooks and have some possible recipe options to try out soon. They are: cuban black bean soup, spaghetti with chilli & leek, cinnamon scrolls with marscepone drizzle and white chocolate fudge bars. If they turn out to be any good, I’ll be sure to share the recipe!

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April 29, 2010

The List 2010 – #8 Progress Update

Despite my best intentions for completing 50 of the “100 Greatest Books Of All Time” (at least according to Time Magazine I seem to be struggling. I am only 4 books in and it is growing closer and closer to May. I am going to blame this delay on Stephen King’s ‘Under The Dome’ which took me over a month to get through! So far so good though, as far as the books on my list are going. Here is a mini review of each that I’ve managed to finish:

01: One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest by Ken Kesey
This was an impeccably written novel. I had seen the film prior to reading, so I had a fair idea of what to expect as far as the storyline went, but I found that the novel delved much deeper into the mind of the characters. The ending didn’t shock me as much as it probably should have (again, because I had previously seen the film) but it did leave me unsettled. My best friend borrowed the book soon after and she said it “reinstated her faith in good quality writing”. So there you go.

02: White Teeth by Zadie Smith
Two of my girlfriends had suggested I read this book before I embarked on the challenge, and when I saw it on the list I was more than eager to get stuck into it. I really loved this book. I loved the characters, I loved the twists and turns of the storyline and I loved Zadie’s style of writing. I am looking forward to reading more of her work once I’ve made my way through the book list.

03: The Crying of Lot 49 by Thomas Pynchon
I couldn’t get into this book at all. I found the style of writing distracting, and felt no connection or empathy for any of the characters. Thankfully it was a quick read. In my honest opinion, don’t bother!

I am halfway through Atonement by Ian McEwan and loving it so far… I have a few other books from the list sitting on my shelf waiting to be read, so hopefully with Mr B travelling for work again soon I will have some time to get stuck in to some more reading.

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November 12, 2009

Guest Blog – “Sweet Charity”

As I mentioned recently, one of my goals for next year is to join and regularly start donating to a charity that I believe in. Em from Em’s Charity Kiss has written an inspiring guest post to encourage us all (including me) to step up and do what we can for charity

Sweet Charity

Usually at this time of the year, people start making lists of goals they would like to reach for the next year. It’s usually things about weight, giving up bad habits or learning how to sew on a button. But another ambition is also popular on people’s new year to-do list – donating, or actively contributing to a charity or charity organisation. Charity is one of those weird concepts in modern culture that can have both positive and negative connotations. Modern society as a whole is more sceptical about people’s underlying intentions and motivations for participating in charitable acts. However, committing to a charity is still one of the most rewarding things you can do. Charity is the ultimate expression of compassion, and more importantly, of selflessness. It’s an act of both empathy and altruism. We don’t necessarily do it to get something out of it, other than a sense that for one moment we were able to put other people before ourselves. But making the decision to contribute to charity can also have more personal benefits.

I’ve never been as actively involved in a charity as I have been since starting EmsCharityKiss to help support OneInFive, and to promote awareness for those living with mental illness. I have always tried to be charitable in the past, but for the first time this was me putting myself out on a limb and sharing my own experiences to help bring attention to the cause. It felt as though I was reconciling with a part of me that was so hard to deal with alone, and through that I would more importantly get to help others. While you may decide not to plunge headfirst into revealing your personal life to help a charity (it’s scary!) the decision to try to provide assistance to those in need in any way, shape or form is a decision that should be applauded. You will be so, so glad you made the choice to do it!

- Em

I would also like to note that there are other ways to donate to charity in place of a monetary donations. You can donate your time and your energy to a cause, or even do something as simple as regularly donating blood. So what are we waiting for? Personally, I have decided to join the RSPCA, and will do so at the beginning of next year. I will keep you updated on my progress, and how being part of the charity effects my life!
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